I'm concerned that my wedding photographer won't get shots of all the important wedding guests. How do I make sure this happens without being a total control freak?
You definitely don't want to be focused on your photographer on your wedding day -- your stress will show in the pictures! Take the responsibility off your shoulders by giving him a list of must-take photos in advance. Ask a relative or friend to be on call to point out specific people to the photographer. Another way to ensure that everyone is included is to have your photographer shoot a portion of your rehearsal dinner -- also a great opportunity for him to get familiar with some of your closest family and friends so that you can be sure he'll get shots of them on the wedding day.
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