I met my future husband online, and we come from different parts of the country. My family and friends can't come to a wedding in his area and his can't come to one in mine. Would it be appropriate to have two weddings, one in each hometown?
It would be completely fine to have more than one wedding celebration -- though it's too bad your families can't meet, it's a sure thing that both groups will appreciate your thoughtfulness.
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