Before you even set foot in a retail store, ask yourselves these essential questions -- the answers will help you determine where to register and what exactly to include on your wish list:
What’s our design style?
This may seem like a loaded question if you already know that you’re a city slicker and he’s a country bumpkin. But it’s good to get a handle on your individual tastes and how you can combine them as a couple before you register. Need help coming to a compromise? Try this: Sit down together with a few design magazines and home catalogs, and tear out stuff you both like. Find your common ground in colors, accessories, and furniture styles.
Do we like to cook?
If the answer is “occasionally,” then it’s okay to sign up for just a few multipurpose items -- you might not need that entire block set of knives. On the other hand, if you both love to cook you’ll probably want to double up on equipment or add specialty items like fancy pasta machines that are perfect for gourmets-in-training.
Do we like to entertain?
And if so, what’s our entertaining style? If you’re party people, then you’ll definitely need large serving pieces and lots of barware. If you like dressed-up events, you’re going to want to own that luxe set of china. If the backyard barbecue reigns supreme, you might lean toward more rustic stoneware plates paired with chunky glassware.
What are our hobbies?
If you’ll be Mr. and Mrs. Fix-It, then you should consider including a lawn mower, leaf blower, and top-of-the-line tools. If you both love movies, think about signing up for a selection of the latest DVDs and a state-of-the-art plasma TV.
Are we planning on having kids?
We’re not suggesting you should include the stroller and Diaper Genie on a bridal registry (save that for the baby shower), but if you’re planning on having a brood, you may want to add extra towels, sheets, cookware, and a big ol’ stand mixer for making giant batches of cookie dough.
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