1.Embrace the Lobster Bake
If you're having a seaside reception or rehearsal dinner, don't even think about serving anything else. Guests can't get enough of good old-fashioned steamed seafood, and we guarantee it will never go out of style.
2. Give a Flower Shout-Out
For a sweet nod to the East End, incorporate the Montauk daisy into your bouquet. If you prefer to carry something more traditional though, try lining the aisle in the white and yellow blossom instead.
3. Head to Wine Country
Look to Long Island vineyards, like Bedell Cellars (631-734-7537, BedellCellars.com) or Wolffer Estate (631-537-5106, Wolffer.com) to offer tranquil ceremony settings and amazing photo backdrops.
4. Take a New Spin on Nautical
The nautical theme has been done hundreds of times, but you can still infuse a little personality into the old standard. Think lovebird cake toppers dressed in sailor hats and pops of orange amidst all that navy.
5. Label your Tables
The Hamptons has given you plenty of memories so why not name your tables after those sentimental spots? Print cute stories (embarrassing karaoke at The Stephen Talkhouse, anyone?) on the backs of your table cards for everyone to enjoy.
6. Give Back
Charitable donations have never looked so good. Find a local organization to support, like the Peconic Land Trust that works to conserve the East End's natural landscape (631-283-3195, PeconicLandTrust.org), and educate guests on the power of supporting your local community.
7. Be a Homebody
The East End is world-renowned for its breathtaking abodes. Consider renting a beach house (HomeAway.com can help) -- or calling on a generous family member -- to host your festivities in a private and comfortable setting.
8. Don't Forget the Groomsmen
Coordinate your colors by outfitting your male attendants in matching ties from Hampton & Co. (631-283-2899, HamptonAndCo.com). They double as a great gift and 10 percent of every purchase supports a local charity!
9. Chill Out
Although the area is best recognized for high society, it still retains a laid-back surfing spirit. Consider keeping with the vibe and hosting a casual-attire event, complete with rustic décor and a relaxed ambience (everyone loves a barbecue!).
10. Stay in Season
Fall weddings allow for a wealth of local Hamptons produce for the taking. Head to an area farm stand, like The Milk Pail in Water Mill (631-537-2565, Milk-Pail.com), for fresh pumpkins, gourds and apples to use as decorative elements.
-- Susan Waits