How can you be sure your stone is conflict-free? Learn the facts and ask the right questions.
Know Your Stones
In 2002, the UN adopted a system to end the practice of diamond trading for dubious means. The Kimberley Process Certification Scheme outlines the regulations and requirements countries must follow to make sure a diamond is mined and shipped in a humane, legitimate way. Diamonds that meet these regulations are shipped with a Kimberley Process certificate. When you buy a diamond, the jeweler should be able to provide this certificate -- if they can't, you should be wary of the stone's origin.
Check for Certification
Any well-established, reputable jeweler should be able to tell you about a diamond's history and guarantee that it's conflict-free. How do you know a jeweler is telling the truth? Ask to see the diamond's System of Warranties statement, and know what these certificates look like before you shop -- you can see examples at DiamondFacts.org.
Shop Smart
You can also opt to shop at a retailer like Brilliant Earth, which specializes in conflict-free jewelry (their diamonds come from Canada, and 5 percent of their profits are donated to a fund to benefit local African communities harmed by the diamond industry). And a store you've certainly heard about -- Tiffany & Co. -- deals exclusively with suppliers who use environmentally sound, conflict-free mining.
Look Beyond Canada
Many buyers believe conflict-free must mean the stones are Canadian. Although Canada has a solid reputation for diamonds that are mined in an environmentally conscious and conflict-free way, you shouldn't consider stones from Canada the only diamonds that are conflict-free. Other producers are Russia, Australia, and yes, many African countries. The important thing is that the diamond has documentation all the way from the mine to the jeweler. Currently, the Ivory Coast is one country the UN cites in which diamonds are being mined and smuggled by rebels. You can find more information about countries participating in the Kimberley Process at here.
Don't Expect to Pay More
There are many different factors that can make a diamond pricier, but being conflict-free certified should not be one of them. If you work with a jeweler you trust and research before you buy (our list of useful links is a good start) you can know you've done your part in being a responsible diamond shopper.
-- Miles Stiverson
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dealy1965
I also got a cultured diamond, from Diamond Nexus Labs. I had a traditional mined diamond form my first marriage and it is worth a fraction of what it cost because it is no longer a "fashionable" cut. My cultured diamond is so much more beautiful than the old one, and my ethical and economical sensibilities have been satisfied! You don't need a second mortgage to have a beautiful ring to symbolize your relationship. Do your research!!
justikasfire
I got a cultured diamond which has better clarity and color and size then my fiance would have been able to afford. I don't mind if it was lab created. It's just as beautiful and meaningful.
mrtillotson
If you really want a conflict-free stone, try Moissonite. Neither my fiancé not I wanted a diamond, so he did a lot of research and bought me a beautiful Moissonite ring. Do some research before he buys!
ash03vic
I truly don't desire for a diamond, the coveted stone by many. My fiance got me an engagement ring that is a colored stone and with beautiful filigree. I admire this ring so much because it shows that my fiance took serious time to look for a ring that he thought matched my personality so much... makes it even more special. Shows that my man knows what I really like! :D I'm more than satisfied with this ring because now I really know that my fiance truly knows and loves me inside and out.
cstaazul228
Canadian Diamonds are commonly identified as the only way to buy conflict free diamonds. Pure Life Diamonds is an example of a company that guarantees conflict free without the stone coming from Canada. Their diamonds are insanely sparkly too!! My wife lives her ring.