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Of course it's not required that you play games at the bridal shower, but consider this: You're going to have an all-ages group who has probably have never met one another before the party, so we suggest you mix in a few of these classic bridal shower games to break the ice. And even if a few of the games might sound a little cliché, they're actually surprisingly fun with a group! Below, everything you'll need to know to prep and play.

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The Game: Bridal Shower Bingo

The Gist: It's Bingo with wedding-themed pieces.
What to Prep: Create bingo cards, but replace the word BINGO with the word BRIDE along the top margin. Instead of numbers, list facts relevant to the to-be-weds inside each square. For example, one might be the name of the city where the couple is getting married or the place they got engaged.
How to Play: Follow traditional bingo rules: The first guest to mark off a line horizontally, vertically or diagonally wins a prize.

The Game: Purse Raid

The Gist: It's like a scavenger hunt using each guest's purse or bag.
What to Prep: Before the shower, create a list of standard items you might have in your purse – start with the basics (a compact, credit cards, keys) and work your way up to more random or risqué objects (condoms, dog treats). You'll also need to buy a few little gifts to be given out as prizes to the guests that win. Prizes could be anything from cookies to coffee shop gift cards!
How to Play: The host calls out the items on the list and the first guest to pull the object from their purse wins a small prize.

The Game: Wedding Jeopardy

The Gist: Guests choose one of the wedding-related categories and then have to answer a question to win points.
What to Prep: Create a chart by labeling pieces of paper with the bride-to-be's name written across the top margin and then several categories down the left side (flowers, cities, restaurants, movies, colors). Come up with difficult questions that pertain to each category. For example, "What flower has to be flown in from Holland in the off-season?" (The answer is the peony!). Finally, you'll need to set out pens and note cards for each guest to use. If you want to give out a prize to the winner, buy that as well.
How to Play: Give each person a turn to pick a category. When a category is called, read out the question. Each guest then has two minutes to come up with the answer and write it down on her note card. When time is called, everyone has to put their pens down and show their answers. Give one point for every right answer, and the person at the end with the most correct answers is the winner!

The Game: The Newlywed Game

The Gist: Just like the famous game show, put the to-be-wed in the hot seat to answer questions about their fiance to see how their answers compare.
What to Prep: Before the bridal shower, interview the fiance with questions about each other and their relationship: "Where was your first kiss?" "What is his most annoying habit?"
How to Play: At the shower, ask the bride the same questions and see if she can answer correctly. To get the full effect, record a video of the answers and play back the responses to each question for everyone to see and hear (allow a pause between each question or record each question and answer as separate videos.)

The Game: Pass the Love Story

The Gist: Each guest gets their chance to exaggerate the "story" of how the couple met and fell in love.
What to Prep: All you need is pen and paper for this one!
How to Play: The host starts it off by writing a line at the top of the piece of paper about how the couple met. For example, "Tess and Topy met at the office." She then passes the piece of paper to the next player, who writes a line to follow that one. Once that player writes their line, their job is to fold the paper over so that only their sentence is revealed to the next player. After everyone has contributed, the guest of honor should read the final piece aloud to the group.

The Game: Who Said It

The Gist: This is like the reverse version of The Newlywed Game, where the guests are put to the test!
What to Prep: Before the shower, ask the couple to answer questions about their love story (how they met, their first date, the vacations they've taken together). Make a list of their answers, and mix up the responses so there's no way to know who said what. Take out any names or pronouns that would make it obvious who said what, like "The first thing that attracted me was (his/her) smile." Finally, print out copies of the list of quotes for all the guests.
How to Play: Pass out the list of quotes to each guest and have them draw a circle around the ones they think the guest of honor said. Whoever pairs the most statements correctly wins the game.

The Game: Two Truths and a Lie

The Gist: Guests try to decide what's fact or fiction while practicing their poker faces.
What to Prep: This one is super-simple -- you don't need anything to play it.
How to Play: Each guest introduces herself and dishes three experiences she's had with the honoree -- one of which isn't true. The person who correctly picks out the lie gets a point. The best part? The truths often turn out to be wackier than the lies (cue the hilarious story swapping!).

The Game: Wedding Movie Charades

The Gist: It's the classic mime game -- wedding style.
What To Prep: Label note cards with wedding movies (include classics, chick flicks and obscure picks for a good challenge).
How to Play: Divvy the group up into two teams. Players pick a card from the pile and act out a scene from that film without speaking a word, while their team members try and guess the answers within a three-minute time limit.

The Game: The Couple's Roast (for a Couple's Shower!)

The Gist: The couple judges their guests as to how well they're able to act like them.
What to Prep: Cut paper into strips and write descriptions of scenarios from the couple's past or future on each one. For example, "John and Jane get lost in Ikea." You'll also need two sets of note cards, written with numbers 1 to 10 (these will be your scorecards).
How to Play: Guests break into two teams and then draw from the strips of paper, and designate two people from the team to be the actors. Each group gets five minutes to act out the scenario in front of the couple. Once the five minutes are up, the couple uses their scorecards to judge the act based on acting chops and accuracy. Hint: The key is to try to act out as many of the couple's mannerisms and quirks as you can.

The Game: Couple's Crossword

The Gist: A personal spin on the classic word puzzle.
What to Prep: Come up with 10 to 15 questions about the couple that can be answered in one word. Then, create a custom crossword puzzle using those words (look for free online sites for help). Print out the puzzles -- one for each guest -- and grab some pens.
How to Play: Pass out pens and a puzzle to each guest. Give them time to work on the puzzles and grade them toward the end of the party to find out who wins.

The Game: Wedding Trivia

The Gist: Exactly what it sounds like -- a true test of each guest's wedding knowledge.
What to Prep: Look up interesting wedding facts and figures and write them out on separate pieces of paper.
How to Play: You can form two teams or just keep it simple and give points to each individual to yell out the right answer. As the host, you're in charge of asking all the questions and the team or person who gets the most answers correct is the winner.

The Game: Bridal Pictionary

The Gist: Just like the original, only wedding-themed.
What to Prep: In a bowl, place slips of paper that have different wedding-related phrases on them (tossing the bouquet, going to the chapel, always a bridesmaid and so on). You'll also need a white board with markers or an easel to draw on.
How to Play: Divide the group into two teams. Nominate an artist on one of the teams. Have them pull a phrase from the bowl and then set the timer for them to draw it out. They get 60 seconds and if their team can't guess it right, then the other team gets a chance to guess. The winning team is the first to guess 10.

The Game: Vow Collaboration

The Gist: Similar to Pass the Love Story game above, except for this one, the group creates a silly set of wedding vows.
What to Prep: You'll need two clipboards, pens and paper.
How to play: Tell the group they're going to help write the couple's wedding vows. Circulate two clipboards: one with the header "I [insert name] take you [insert name] and promise to" and the other with the reverse. Give each clipboard to one guest and instruct her to write a vow phrase under the header. For example, "I promise to…not hog the shower in the morning." Once one guest has written their vow, they should fold it over so that it's hidden, and then pass it to the second player. Once everyone has contributed to both clipboards, read the vows aloud for all to hear.

The Game: Hot Gossip

The Gist: Think of it as a live game of clue.
What to Prep: For each of the guests attending the shower, write up a juicy question revealing how they know the bride or groom on index cards. (Example: "Who did Tim bring to the prom?")
How to Play: When everyone arrives, hand them a card and explain that they have 30 to 40 minutes to come up with the answer to the question on their given card. After swapping info and mingling, each person reveals their relationship to the to-be-weds.

The Game: Celebrity Name Game

The Gist: It's the celebrity version of Catch Phrase.
What to Prep: Have everyone write the names of about 10 to 20 celebrities on small pieces of paper and throw them into a hat or bowl.
How to Play: Split guests into two teams. The first player from Team A draws a name, stands up and tries to explain the celebrity to her teammates without actually saying their name. If teammates guess correctly, the second player draws a new name and goes on as before. Each team has one minute to get through as many names as possible until all the names are out of the hat. Shake up the next round and only allow players to use one word to define the celeb.

The Game: Memory

The Gist: Try to stump your guests on the bride's "love story."
What to Prep: At the beginning of the shower, the bride should share her "love story" with the group, bringing up key events (where they met, how they proposed, etc.).
How to Play: After opening presents, the host surprises guests by asking questions about the story. Throw in curveballs with questions like "How many times was ‘love' used in the story?" The person with the closest number gets a special prize.

The Game: Words of Wisdom

The Gist: Guests "shower" the bride with marriage and love advice.
What to Prep: Tuck a pretty blank card into the invitation for the shower and ask every guest to share their advice for a happy marriage.
How to Play: Guests advice can range from recipes, a poem or funny story, and so on. At the party, guests take turns reading their words of wisdom to the group and everyone tries to guess who gave which words of wisdom. When the cards have all been read, the host can compile them in a scrapbook as a keepsake for the bride.

The Game: Memory Lane

The Gist: Everyone has to figure out what the bride and groom did with whom.
What to Prep: Hand out index cards and have each guest write a description of their favorite memory with the bride (the more adventurous, the better). The host will collect the cards.
How to Play: After the host collects the cards, she'll take the bride on a trip down memory lane, speaking them all out loud. Everyone will have to guess who did what with the bride. (Examples: Who snuck out of the house with the bride for a high school party; who met a pop star on a weekend in Miami with the bride, etc.)

The Game: Taste the Cake

The Gist: You get to eat cake and guess the flavors.
What to Prep: Set up a "cake bar" complete with bite-sized cake pieces (mini cupcakes, cake pops or cut-up pieces of regular cakes will do) and remember all the flavors. Write out the flavor of each type of cake on an index card and place it in an envelope behind the bite size pieces.
How to Play: Each player is blindfolded and walks down the table with one of the hosts, who notes the player's flavor guess. The player takes sips of champagne between bites to cleanse the palate. (Of course, hosts can sip champagne at any point in the game!) Whoever guesses the most flavors correctly wins.

The Game: Etiquette 911

The Gist: Have guests answer extreme (read: hilarious) etiquette questions.
What to Prep: On index cards, write out a few wedding etiquette question – the more outrageous the better. Think of some nuptial nightmares like: What do you do if the best man sprays champagne all over the guests? If you accidentally knock into the wedding cake? If two bridesmaids get into a fight at the altar? If you see the groom's aunt stealing items from the gift table?
How to Play: Hand out one etiquette card to each guest and have her write down an honest response to the situation. Then, have the bridal party gather all the cards and read the questions and answers aloud.

The Game: The Lingerie Game

The Gist: Works best at a lingerie shower.
What to Prep: On the invitations, ask each guest to bring lingerie gifts that match their personality and style. While the bride isn't looking, hang them around the room.
How to Play: Once everything is set up, have the bride go around the room considering each item. Then, have her guess whom each gift is from. At the end of the day, she goes home with a new panty wardrobe!

-- Rachel Torgerson

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