Q&A: Groom Style: Can I Wear Tails for a Daytime Wedding?

Q.

Is it okay for the groom to wear tails if the wedding is not in the evening?

A.

Not really. Tails are more of a super-ultraformal evening thing. If you like the formal look of a long jacket, however, think about a cutaway or morning coat for the groom. This is a very Victorian-looking, gray, often pinstriped coat, worn with a vest and ascot. It's very dapper, very Hugh Grant in Four Weddings and a Funeral. You should be able to check out the styles available at your local formalwear store.

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jennp84
i am having the opposite problem. my groom wants to not wear a jacket at all to our wedding. it is outside in the daytime, but i and my BMs are dressed more formally. how do i convince him to wear a jacket?

linda291
It's not unfair but it's not the only option. I mean the reason why you shouldn't is that some people may think it odd or even laugh and who wants that at their wedding? If you want to wear it go ahead it's your wedding do what feels right.

colorguardgirl
This is very unfair to say that tails are only for ultra formal evening wedding and reception. Our church only allows for Saturday weddings and you have the choice between 1pm and 3pm. We have choosen the 3pm ceremony and reception to follow. The groom and groomsmen are wearing tails and I have specified a black tie affair. We are Catholic so the only option is to be married in our church.